“Real love doesn’t care about body type, looks, or wallet size, It’s more determined by what’s inside.”
This phrase is what I believe in, the love that two people share goes beyond what is materialistic or what the society deems “Beautiful” because in the eyes of the one that loves you, you are truly beautiful and you are perfect just the way you are so they wouldn’t want to change a thing about you, you know? When you love someone you love them because they can make you feel like no other can, they can make you smile with just a simple “Hello”, they can make you happy on your worst of days and most of all they are the one that is always there for you when you need them the most. A relationship is based on getting to know the person for who they are, what they think or believe in, and what makes them the way they are, It’s these things that you learn about them that make you fall for them, although maybe looks may play it’s part, but in the end an “Interesting Personality” keeps the person staying and wanting more. With that being said get to know a person and love them for who they are, not for what they look like because remember looks fade, but personality is what sticks with you your whole life.
I just want to talk to “You”.
To be honest I like talking to you, it doesn’t matter what we talk about because talking to you always makes my day better, whether it’s hearing about your day or just random conversations, it’s something that I enjoy because you’re someone special to me, you’re the one person I want to begin and end my days with. So I hope you stay and I hope you know how important you are to me. I want to be there for you when you feel like giving up, I want to hear your laughter and make you smile when you’re feeling sad. Just know that I care about you and I’m lucky to have you in my life.
girls are much more than what they seem.
they’re more than just the makeup, the clothes, the shoes, the bags, the sunglasses, the outside. they’re more than just whiny bitches. we’re so much more .. too bad some boys can’t understand. a girl’s life is a bitch itself. on a daily basis we deal with bitches, backstabbers, lies, boyfriends, crushes, exes, appearance, insecurity, bullying and so much more. everyday we wake up, we have to shower. we have to fix our hair. then, we have to get dressed. we spend hours infront of our mirror for you. making sure we look good. then we have to apply make up. while doing all this, there’s so much to consider.. especially gossipers and guys. if something’s too short, they’ll call us a whore. something’s too long, they’ll call us ugly. we go through buckets full of ice cream because we’ve had way too many broken hearts. we cry because bitches wanna hate and boyfriends wanna bitch. we can’t complain because we don’t wanna be annoying. we trust people, then they end up stabbing us in the back. we learn stuff the hard way. every guy out there making a period joke, like are you for real? no. just because you’re being a little bitch and pissing me off doesn’t mean i’m on my period. get over it. we get hurt multiple times, and keep running back to the same people. we love hard, and hurt hard. we care too much. we’re never understood. we go through so much trouble when you don’t even notice. we listen to songs till five in the morning and fall asleep to it just because it reminds us of you. we try so hard to impress you, while dealing with all that’s said about us. after everything, we sit our asses down on tumblr and reblog everything that reminds us of you. we spill our guts out to our bestfriends who’ve probably had enough of you. we go on facebook and we check your profile a million times, and go through all your pictures. even if we have seen them all before. we hear what people say about us, and sometimes we break inside. but no matter what, even after everything, we have to come out strong. we have to put a big smile on our faces and pretend like everything’s ok. we have to act nice towards the haters, even knowing everything that they said about us. we love even though we know we shouldn’t. and we wait for something that’ll never happen. but no matter what, we manage to act like everything’s fine, even though everything’s falling apart. that’s a day in a girl’s life. imagine dealing with all that everyday. we’re so much more than what you think. so much more than what we seem.
That’s what hurts you the most right?
When you’re hurting, he just pushes your feelings aside like they’re nothing to him, he neglects you and doesn’t even pay attention to how you feel because he’s too busy paying attention to himself, he’s never there for you when you need him even though you’re the one that’s always there for him when he’s feeling down because deep down you know that you still care about him. You wish that he would just take the time to listen to you, you wish that he could just understand you because it would show that he still cares, but sadly he does none of that right? You want him to be there for you like you’re there for him, but in reality he’s not. At times you feel alone because it feels like the one person that’s suppose to care about you doesn’t.
What does a “Relationship” mean to me?
It means being committed, by being committed I mean not giving up when the relationship doesn’t go as you planned it to be because you understand that relationships aren’t perfect and you realize that you’re boyfriend or girlfriend is going to mess up here and there, but even through the mistakes you still can love that person with all your heart because to you they mean more then any argument or difference. In a relationship you have to be faithful, no lies and no cheating because the person you’re with is someone that is special to you, that person is the only one that has your heart, that person is the one that makes you happy, they see your flaws and know your mistakes but still love you for who you are. A relationship isn’t about the “Sex” or the “Materialistic Things” , It’s about finding someone who you can be yourself with, it’s finding someone who accepts you for who you are even through your imperfections and mistakes, It’s being with someone who can make you smile on your worst of days with the most simplest of gestures. Most of all it’s not the looks that matter, It’s the personality because that determines who you are, It’s what stays with you as life goes on while your looks may fade.