Guys, some girls no matter what you say, just naturally have a low self-esteem. They don’t like to think of themselves as great or pretty or perfect, even though in their boyfriend’s eyes, they are. To help get your girlfriend’s self esteem up, there’s really one thing you can do, keep loving her the way you do. The more you say she’s beautiful, the more she’s destined to believe it. Give her compliments. Tell her how beautiful she is, how much she lights up your world. Compliment her on her specific features. If she thinks she’s ugly, it’s your job as the boyfriend to tell her she’s the most beautiful thing in the world. If she thinks she’s fat, it’s your job to tell her otherwise. Girls don’t get tired of hearing compliments from their boyfriend, even if they say they do, they appreciate it.
Not a single day should go by when you don’t tell your girlfriend that she’s beautiful. The more you tell her, the more she’ll believe you. All girls who have boyfriends want to hear those words from them, it makes them feel important. Never be afraid to say “I love you.” Stare into her eyes, brush her hair, and kiss her passionately. Tell her how much better she makes your life, how much you enjoy spending time with her, how you’ll never leave her side. Girls love this feeling of security. Create a future with her you know? Most importantly, mean everything you say. Support her whenever she needs you. Allow her to build confidence in you. Spend time with her, and be there for her as a shoulder to lean on.
Appreciate her as your girlfriend, your best friend, your partner, and your lover. If you give your girlfriend that one reason to keep smiling then her self-esteem can only go up. Make her feel pretty, make her feel loved, and make her feel needed, if you can do these three things, then not only will she be more crazy in love with you, but she’ll see past her insecurities and realize that she really is the girl you see her as. After all, you didn’t choose her for nothing right? Show her why you love her, why she’s special to you, why she’s the highlight of your life, and her self-esteem will rise in no time.
Have you ever ran into an ex?
You both are walking towards each other. Each step you take is one step into your past, the memories you guys had replays in your head, the butterflies in your stomach becomes active. You try your best to look your best and act like you’re doing so good without them. Your heart is skipping beats, your breathe becomes uneven, you want to turn in the other direction and get away from all these emotions. But it’s too late, he/she already sees you.. You try to avoid eye contact by pretending to text, you giggle a little while staring at your phone. When that moment finally comes, you guys are shoulder to shoulder next to one another, either of you says a thing. As he/she passes by, you smell their once familiar scent. When this is all over with, you realize it was the biggest mistake to let them walk out of your life. You turn back hoping for them to do the same, but only to find out they’re already gone.
“Would you just stay with me?”
“Stay with you? What for? Look at us, we’re already fighting.”
“Well that’s what we do. We fight. You tell me when I’m being an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you’re being a pain in the ass. Which you are, 99% of the time. I’m not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have like a two-second rebound rate then you’re back doing the next pain in the ass thing.”
“So it’s not gonna be easy, it’s gonna be really hard, and we’re gonna have to work at this everyday but I wanna do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, everyday.”
I'm goin' crazy ..
You know what’s crazy?
How one person can affect your whole life. How one person can make you have a thousand insecurities, especially when this one person makes the biggest changes in your life.
When this person walks out, it’s like your world have collapse.
This one person is the person who have drained the life out of you for some time.
What even makes it more shocking is the fact that when you reminisce memories of them, it hurts you like hell, even if the moments were heartwarming.
It tears you up, because it’s something you can’t return to.
They’ll always be in your heart. This one person must have meant a whole lot to you, to make you feel so many emotions in so many different ways.
Labels: ako na EMO :|, random
❤ "I'm goin' crazy .." was Posted On: Monday, March 21, 2011 @11:03 AM | 3 lovely comments ✿
It’s that stupid, sad, unexplainable, and bad thing you get when you lose the one you love.
You wouldn’t want to eat for days, or even weeks. You turn down everyone who tries to comfort you, or depend on your best friend for comfort. You desperately want that person back in your life, but it’s over. It’s all over.
All those happy moments you shared, the feeling you had, in one event, it disappeared.
The scars of a heartbreak will always remain, you won’t ever love the same way again, but somehow, someday, you’ll learn to let go, and that is the day every heartbroken person looks forward to.
Labels: ako na EMO :|, random
I changed my lay-out, finally!
It's been 3months since I updated my lay-out.
I really wanna do my own lay-out but I'm not really good at it so I decided to
search on the net instead .
I also changed my cbox smileys. Check it out.
It's kinda simple but i liked it because of it's korean letters on top of the lay-out.
I don't know how to read, speak korean but I'm looking forward to learn those stuff
And I'm lovin' K-DRAMA's right now.
Thanks for the english sub.
I would like to apologize if I don't visit your blogs often.
But this time, I promise each and everyone of you that I'll hop on your sites when I'm not busy.
Labels: Korean Fever, random
You'll Never Be Alone
Can i be your wife and wake up every morning like this?
As i wake up every morning, I’ll promise you that I’ll keep loving you more everyday of my life.
I’ll give you the best of me and love you with every pieces of my heart.
Marry Me and you’ll never be alone ever again cause you’re always with me, even in my mind and heart wherever i go.
❤ "You'll Never Be Alone" was Posted On: Wednesday, March 16, 2011 @12:40 PM | 2 lovely comments ✿
Late night, I ran to escape the loneliness without knowing where to go. I found a place where i can pour my feelings out. I’m crying silently when someone sits beside me. I didn’t look at him because I don’t want him to see my teary eyes.
He broke the silence between us, “You know miss? You can cry on me. You can tell me your problem. We both don’t know each other anyway”. I cried knowing there’s still someone who cares for me. “Its okay if you don’t want to, I’ll just sit here to accompany you” he added. ”I’m so tired being an outcast,” I finally utter those words, “They just notice me when they need me, they dont care about me. They hate me”. A very comforting arms from anonymous person made my feelings light. “If they hate you, and the whole world will hate you, just remember this person who’s with you tonight, will never be tired to care about you”. After a while, “I have to go, go home too. It would be dangerous for you if you stay here at this time”, he took my hand and put a folded piece of paper then left. When he’s already far, I open the folded paper and read.
’ Don’t bother them. Its just them. The important is you, and there’s still me who will comfort you whenever you need to. Nice to meet you, even if i haven’t seen your face. ’
ok ka lang?
OK KA LANG?
Ang tanong na hindi mo malaman laman ang tunay na sagot.
Malay mo ba kung may tinatago siya. Pero ikaw mismo pag tinignan mo siya sa kanyang mga mata malalaman mo kung okay lang ba talaga siya o hindi. Yung tanong na yan parang sinasabi mo narin na gusto kitang tulungan sa poblema mo.
Okay ka lang ba?
May mga oras na di mo mapigilan umiyak sa isang bagay o tao. Yung iyak na sobrang sakit na parang gusto mo magdabog magalit o ano pa man. Yung iyak na gusto mo na sana maintindihan nila ang mga nararamdaman mo. Yung iyak na naghahanap ng tulong o lunas para mawala ang sakit.
Kahit na sino pa yan.. Dapat di ka nila pinapaiyak.
Thank you for the people who stayed by my side when i was hurt and sad . Some people think i’m crazy but i have been muted to recover these invisible wounds . These wounds i have been keeping to myself .
They told me to forget everything in the past and move on but how .. they’re all the same .. they’re no different .. but i’m thankful that they all tried . Sick and tired with the same results in every action .
Then again i tried to be optimistic throughout the day . I used the environment or what’s left to become happy . Then again , things can’t hurt you when they’re alone like me . So i stayed with them and gave them the care i rather need .
A Walk To Remember
I want to have a boyfriend like Landon Carter in A walk to remember..
Someone that won’t be afraid to be with me in front of everybody ..
Someone that learn something just to make me happy…
Someone that won’t be afraid to talk with my parents about our relationship ..
Someone that if I think of him only good things come outta my mind ..
Someone that will stay with me in all my moments: good or bad ..
With this little someone especial is with whom I want to marry when I grow up ..
And be happy for the rest of my life ..
❤ "A Walk To Remember" was Posted On: Tuesday, March 08, 2011 @11:38 AM | 5 lovely comments ✿
I know, someday, I will find you, and I will marry you. We will be together after a long time of waiting for this moment to come. In each other’s arms, we will feel the happiness we never felt before. We will love like we’ve never been in love and never been hurt before, just like love for the first time. A love, so fresh, so exciting, with no fear and doubtfulness.
I may know you now or may not know you yet, but one thing’s for sure, our love story has not yet begun. I’m typing this nonsense things coming from my mind, using these simple words to explain how i feel, wondering if you’d be able to read this.
The day would come, that I’d be walking on the aisle, with everyone’s eyes on me. My throat can hardly swallow as the tears on my eyes are clouding, which slowly drops every time i close my eyes.Tears of happiness flowing, for I can see a blurred vision of you, waiting for me at the end of the aisle. At last, we will both say “I do”.
Labels: Marry Me :), random
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