letting go and moving on =|
Letting go of someone dear to you is hard, but holding on to someone who doesn't even feel the same is much harder. Giving up doesn't mean you are weak! It only means that you are strong enough to let go!
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i love you goodbye :(
Oftentimes we say goodbye to the person we love without wanting to.Though that doesn’t mean that we've stopped loving them or we've stopped to care. Sometimes goodbye is a painful way to say I love you.
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special :)
Hindi lahat ng taong sa palagay mo'y special ay dapat mong makarelasyon. Minsan tama na yung alam nyo na mahalaga kau sa isa't isa .-- TAMMMMMMAAA :))
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PUSH.or.PULL
wag mong piliting pasukin ang puso ng isang taong ndi ka mahal, dhil magmumukha kang katawa.tawa.. para k lng nagtutulak ng isang pinto na may nkasulat na "PULL"..
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wat.da.ef?
wag mong samantalahin ang kahinaan ng isang tao,
lalo na kung alam mong ikaw ang kahinaan nito. =))
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muntanga lang
wag mong ipagpilitan ang sarili mo sa taong ayaw sayo.
para kang namamangka sa kalsada ,
ndi ka na nga umuusad , nagmumuka ka pang TANGA !
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USAPANG SINGLE, TAKEN & HEARTBROKEN
Paano mo malalaman kung ang isang babae ay SINGLE, TAKEN o HEARTBROKEN?
kapag kinakausap mo ang:
* single. wala nang ibang sinasabi. kung ano ano lang. kung ano matripan niya.
* taken. walang ibang sinasabi kundi tungkol sa papabeybs niya.
* heartbroken. walang ibang sinasabi kundi tungkol sa papabeybs niya–dati. laging
sinusumpa ang mga lalaki lalo ang ex niya.
sinusumpa ang mga lalaki lalo ang ex niya.
kapag usapang pagibig, ang:
* single. tahimik lang. di kasi nakakarelate. wala pa kasing experience. wala lang sa kanya.
* taken. puro positibo ang sinasabi sa pag-ibig na para bang walang negatibong bagay sa love. sinasabing worth it ang sakit para sa papabeybs niya. di pa kasi nakakaranas ng harteyk.
* heartbroken. ang pinakamadaldal. experienced at expert na! puro bigay advice sa mga friends. alam na ang mga baho ng pag-ibig.
kapag sa inuman, ang:
* single. ang behave. inom lang ng inom. banat ng banat. joke ng joke.
* taken. unti uminom. baka magalit si papabeybs.
* heartbroken. ang walang habas na tatagay hanggang magumaga. mura dito mura doon. lahat para kei expapabeybs. magpapakalasing, magwawala, tatawagan si expapabeybs, iiyak at magmamakaawa. feeling niya may susundo sa kanya. ambisyosa.
kapag tinext mo si:
* single. magrereply kaagad yan.
* taken. di yan magrerep. katext si papabeybs.
* heartbroken. malulungkot kapag nakita na ikaw lang yung nagtext at hindi si expapabeybs.
sa group messages, malalaman mo ang babae ay:
* single. kapag banat yan at jokes. kung hindi naman e wala lang.
* taken. kapag di na nagpaparamdam sa group message. kung pumuti man ang uwak, ang gm niya e tungkol sa happy lab at siyempre di mawawala si papabeybs sa eksena.
* heartbroken. kapag lakas gm. puro inspirational quotes para sa sarili. pero kung superr bitterr na e tungkol sa expapabeybs niyang sira ulo at sa mga mapapait na karanasan sa lecheng pag-ibig.
kapag inaya mong lumabas si:
* single. go lang. basta payag ang parents.
* taken. di pwede. kadate na naman si papabeybs. kung papayag siya, kasama si papabeybs. kung dapuan man ng sakit at pumayag, papaalam muna kei papabeybs bago sa magulang.
* heartbroken. tatanong kung kasama si expapabeybs. (may cases na kapag malandi ka, kapag sasama si expapabeybs e jojoin ka. meron din namang kapag kasama siya e bigla bigla ka na lang mawawalan ng pera at biglang mei maaalalang emergency.)
sa pananamit, si:
* single. kahit ano lang. kung ano sa mood.
* taken. simple lang. sabi kasi ni papabeybs kahit ano suot maganda siya.
* heartbroken. blooming! lahat mapapansin siya except expapabeybs. saklap. )
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Why am I still single?
Many twenty something girls out there are asking: Why am I still single?I'm sure every other girl/woman/lady asks the same question. Pare-pareho
tayo ng litanya: "I'm smart, I'm not completely unfortunate looking, I'm
funny and I'm willing to commit but WHY AM I STILL SINGLE?" Well, instead
of going crazy asking myself that question, I decided to come up with a
few answers. I'm not saying I'm drop dead gorgeous and as smart as Marie
Curie but come on, every guy I've talked to told me they want a smart,
witty, sensitive and attractive girlfriend. I'm sure all the other ladies
my age possess these qualities and at the risk of being redundant, we all
ask ourselves: Why are we still single? Allow me to present the top three
theories that sprung from my demented mind:
1. Naghihirap ang bansa natin at bumabagsak ang ekonomiya. Hindi naman
kasi ganun kadali humanap ng trabaho ngayon di ba? Nagtitipid ang mga
lalaki dahil mahal na ang bilihin ngayon. Sa panliligaw palang, kahit sa
Dangwa ka bumili ng bulaklak, magkano na ang gagastusin mo. Isipin mo pa
ang pang-gasolina or pamasahe papunta doon at ang katakot-takot na
traffic. Eh di sana, ipinang-lunch na nila yun hindi ba?
Tapos siyempre dahil kailangan magmukha silang concerned, kailangan lagi
nilang tinatawagan at pinapadalhan ng text messages ang nililigawan nila.
Isipin niyo nalang yung load na nagagastos nila or yung binabayaran nila
sa bill ng telepono. Minsan, demanding pa tayong mga babae dahil gusto
natin imported na chocolates or flowers na mamahalin. Kung hindi naman
tayo demanding, gusto lang talaga nila magpa-impress kaya mamahalin ang
ibibigay na mga regalo/suhol sa nililigawan.
Siyempre, pag naging kayo na, magastos parin. Because of the infamous male
ego and pride, hindi pwedeng sagot ni babae ang date kaya si lalaki parin
ang magbabayad. Kahit KKB, gagastos parin si lalaki. Sayang ang pera. Even
if you love each other that much, love won't pay for the movies you know.
And think of the gifts. Every Christmas, birthday, Valentine's Day,
Anniversary, etc., you have to give your significant other something.
Especially pag Christmas kasi sisipsip pa sa magulang, kapatid, pinsan,
etc. ng girlfriend/nililigawan at bibigyan sila lahat ni
boyfriend/manliligaw ng regalo. Mahirap kumita ngayon dahil mataas ang
unemployment rate, mahal ang bilihin at likas na kuripot ang mga lalaki.
Hence, females like me have no boyfriends.
2. May mga babaeng perfectionist. Admit it, every female is looking for
the perfect man. Apparently, the perfect man does not exist... yet. What
are the qualities we look for in a man? Gwapo, may kaya, responsible,
mature, sensitive, funny, smart, presentable, gentleman... the list is
endless. We have to face the fact that the perfect man doesn't exist kasi
it's practically impossible to find all these qualities in one man. If we
ever do, the guy is gay, a priest or married! No, I'm not saying that we
have to settle for second best but maybe, just maybe, the perfect guy is
out there, we just have to lower the standard a notch. He might not be
perfect in every way but his flaws just might be the very reason that you
will love him. Kasi yung imperfections niya ang reason why he might need
the person made for him... for that person to be the one to pick him up
when his flaws take him down. I'm not sure if that made sense but I do
hope you get the point.
3. The last great theory (and the most likely) of my demented mind is that
there are more males born than females every minute of the day. I don't
know what the ratio is now but a couple of years back it was 4 females to
one male. Can you believe that? Imagine sharing one boyfriend with three
others. Plus you have to face the fact that maybe that one male wants to
be a female. Or that one male devotes himself to God. Siyempre, hindi mo
kakaribalin ang Diyos di ba? Or that one male is married. Would any female
want to play second fiddle? I know I wouldn't.
Patience is a virtue, that's my mantra. The theories I made up are just
there to console me whenever I feel I'm missing out on something kasi I'm
single. Case in point: Valentine's Day or weddings or family gatherings na
hinahanapan ako ng boyfriend. He's out there somewhere, the boyfriend that
at the moment is missing in action. While he's not there yet, enjoy being
single. Sabi nga ng iba, wala pa tayong sakit ng ulo and pag gigimmick, sa
parents lang tayo magpapaalam at walang message na biglang darating from a
boyfriend asking us where we are, who we're with and what time tayo uuwi
(daig pa ang tatay ko!). The perfect guy for me will come along when I'm
not looking for it. And when he does, I'm sure everything will be worth
the wait.
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Love wiLL aLways stay .
" Once in a while, in the middle of an ordinary life,love gives us a fairy tale "
Sometimes, we close our eyes and LISTEN TO THE ECHOES OF OUR HEARTS. We all fall in love and there are times when we love so much that we lose ourselves in the emotions. More often than not, we wonder why there are love that grows, and love that grows cold. We would start to search for answers and try to find where love has gone wrong. But in the end, we find ourselves where we started for we cannot question when it has its own reasons. Love will always be as it always has been…silent, mysterious and sleeply profound.
Many of us believe that love is forever
, that love never dies, only to be disillusioned in the end when we find our hands empty and our hearts empty. We mistakenly have looked at love as a need to be fulfilled. But love is only a gift given to us. We should not hold it in our hands for we may never find the courage to let it go when it decides to leave. We should only embrace its warmth and glow while it lasts and freely open our arms when it is time to say goodbye.When we fall in love with someone, we don’t want that feeling to end for it is everything we are, every thing that we wanted to be. We pray that love will stay and grow in our hearts. But, if it doesn’t, then we should never let our lives be taken by it for life should not end where heartaches begin.
There is always a reason why we have to move on. When we have to say goodbye to the feelings that we wanted to stay forever,let us not wave our hands with a heavy heart for love will have to set its wings free and find the place where it belongs.
We have lost it then again when we close our eyes and LISTEN TO THE ECHOES OF OUR HEARTS. We will hear that feeling resounding silently forever.
Then we’ll know it has never left us, for the good that we have become because of love will always stay. It will always be there reminding us that we should be thankful, not because we have lost love, but because, for once in our lives, that feeling lived in our hearts and made us happy.
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FB Fan pages.
ang daming fan profile na nagkalat sa facebook ngaun ..
im sure kpag may nkita kang profile na nkarelate ka ,
gora na ! CLICK AGAD NG LIKE button ..
am i right or am i right ?
aminado ako na isa ko sa ganyang tao .. :)
pero sa dami ng fan profile na ni.like ko ..
eh toh ung page ng pinaka favorite ko ..
click mo ung picture para makapunta ka sa site na yan .
hundred plus pa lang ung fans nya ..
like nyo nlang din po , for girls only =)
natuwa lang kasi ako . heheh
"BOYS" sila ung tipong kht mahalin mo ng sobra, nagagawa pang saktan ka. :(
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Stages in a relationship.
The chase. The stage where you get to know the person & grow to love them. You talk to them constantly & text them. They’re usually the last person you talk to before you go to bed. You wake up to goodmorning texts from them & they’re on your mind throughout the day. As you two grow closer, you learn more about each other that makes you fall even deeper in love with them. Their flaws aren’t really flaws to you & everything they do just makes you light up. You guys share the same taste in music & do cute things for each other. You try to impress one another & I bet your friends tease you two about getting together.The facebook status change. So it’s official. Facebook official. You two are now “In A Relationship”. Congratulations ! Your friends “like” it & comment on it. Don’t even deny that you like the attention. Admit it, honeymoon days & the pillowtalk stage is great. (;
Comfortable. You guys have reached a level of comfort with each other. You stopped trying to hard to impress one another & gradually you grow so accustomed to them if you’re a girl you lose the need to doll up & look your best every time you see them. Sometimes you may miss being single. It’s weird, when you’re single you want to be in a relationship but once you’re in one you sort of miss being single. You miss the freedom & now you’re responsible for another person’s feelings. But you shouldn’t feel that way constantly, or maybe you just can’t settle down.
Those stay-up-all-night-soul-crushing fights. You two have your first real fight. It was bound to happen eventually. Usually it brings you two closer because like they say, those who fight still care for each other. Those fights will either cause you to break up, or if you two endure, your love for each other will grow stronger & more secure. You realize the other person isn’t perfect, or exactly how you thought they were, as you become even more entwined in their life, but you love them despite your expectations.
The grass is greener on the other side syndrome. There comes a point where you wonder if someone else could make you happier. If there’s someone out there that will connect to you better or love you better. The thing is, when they get you, most guys stop doing the things they used to. You miss how hard he would try & the cute things he’d do. It seems like he’s not putting in as much effort as the other guy who does cute things for you but face it, those insignificant things are nothing compared to the love he has for you. When a guy truly loves you, best believe you have his heart in the palm of his hands.
Long term.Maybe it’s 6 months, or maybe it’s a year. But when you two have made it so far together that you’re considered long term, that’s an accomplishment because most couples around this age only last a few months.
If you’re single, just wait, the right one is somewhere (: & If you’re in a relationship, appreciate the person you love & treat them with kindness & respect; you don’t know how lucky you are to have them.
*** credits to my friend who share these amazing entry .. RHIAN =)
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Name: Mitchie
i might not have the biggest boobs nor the biggest butt, i might not have the most bangin’ body either. my smile isn’t perfect and i know my face isn’t the cutest. my hair isn’t always going to look good, and my clothes, they’re not always going to be nice or in the latest fashion.