Kari's Giveaway
I stopped blogging for some reasons but for the sake of Kari's giveaway, I'm giving this a shot. And of course, I want to win. Really!
Click HERE for her giveaway details.
I'm Kari's silent reader ever since she was MOCHAPPES, that explains my theme here which she created and posted in blogskins.
I'm a fan of her style, I envy her stuffs because it's so kawaii. Her clothes are so amazing that I want to look like her, I mean I want to dress up like her but unfortunately I can't afford to buy those kinds of clothes she have. And I love her HAIR so much!!!!
I want to win this so bad so that I can have those stuffs she'll be giving, plus it's from KARI omg! That would be soooo amazing!!
Check out her blog, follow her too. I'm sure you'll love her like I do. Click HERE.
She’s just waiting.
She’s tired of guys messing with her emotions, she’s tired of opening up and getting hurt time and times again. She just wants someone to love her for who she is, she wants someone to be there for her when she needs a shoulder to lean on when she’s feeling down, she wants a guy who will put up with her mood swings because sure she may get mad or sad, truthfully she just wants to know that you will be there for her through the bad and good points of the relationship. She wants something that is long lasting and real, she wants a relationship for the long run, not a guy who’s in the relationship to“Use her”, “Hit it and quit it”. She’s willing to put her all into the relationship, but now she’s just waiting for the right guy to show her that “True love” does truly exist. She’s waiting for that one guy who will treat her right and respect her choices, the guy who will accept her for her flaws and her past regardless of what they may be. Honestly, she’s just waiting..
Things that the Cybercrime Act should cover:
1. Vanity shots. Bawal mag-upload ng 3 albums worth of photos na puro fez mo lang! Feel kitang i-report! Nag-headband lang 75 photos agad dapat..2. After-jerjer cuddling photos. Wag mag-upload ng pics nyo ng jowa mo kung saan obvious na wala kayong saplot! Hindi handa ang sambayanan sa bedsheets niyong madumi. Sumulat kayo kay Xerex at magtanong kung kelan sya magkakaroon ng website.
3. Mga mahilig makipag-away in English na karumal-dumal ang grammar.. "i'm can never jealous of a slut like you..your such a trying hard!!"
4. TMI (Too Much Information) Attack - "ang lakas ng regla ko today..", "haizt maghapon akong nagtatae sakit na ng pwet ko.."
5. Emo 24/7 - "guys ang sakit may mahal na siyang iba..", "fb friends gusto ko na mamatay..", "haizz miss ko na siya pero di ko sasabihin kung sino", "guys umiiyak ako ngayon (insert photo)"
6. EoWH pFouH kUyAh uzTah pFouH jAn jEjEjE aCoh pFouh aUz aMan wAzuP pFouH NuH pFouH 3p nYoh JAn tAwA muCh jEjEjE
---> RECLUSION PERPETUA
THIS! :)) HAHAHAHAHAHA
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Real Love.
“Real love doesn’t care about body type, looks, or wallet size, It’s more determined by what’s inside.”
This phrase is what I believe in, the love that two people share goes beyond what is materialistic or what the society deems “Beautiful” because in the eyes of the one that loves you, you are truly beautiful and you are perfect just the way you are so they wouldn’t want to change a thing about you, you know? When you love someone you love them because they can make you feel like no other can, they can make you smile with just a simple “Hello”, they can make you happy on your worst of days and most of all they are the one that is always there for you when you need them the most. A relationship is based on getting to know the person for who they are, what they think or believe in, and what makes them the way they are, It’s these things that you learn about them that make you fall for them, although maybe looks may play it’s part, but in the end an “Interesting Personality” keeps the person staying and wanting more. With that being said get to know a person and love them for who they are, not for what they look like because remember looks fade, but personality is what sticks with you your whole life.
I just want to talk to “You”.
To be honest I like talking to you, it doesn’t matter what we talk about because talking to you always makes my day better, whether it’s hearing about your day or just random conversations, it’s something that I enjoy because you’re someone special to me, you’re the one person I want to begin and end my days with. So I hope you stay and I hope you know how important you are to me. I want to be there for you when you feel like giving up, I want to hear your laughter and make you smile when you’re feeling sad. Just know that I care about you and I’m lucky to have you in my life.
girls are much more than what they seem.
they’re more than just the makeup, the clothes, the shoes, the bags, the sunglasses, the outside. they’re more than just whiny bitches. we’re so much more .. too bad some boys can’t understand. a girl’s life is a bitch itself. on a daily basis we deal with bitches, backstabbers, lies, boyfriends, crushes, exes, appearance, insecurity, bullying and so much more. everyday we wake up, we have to shower. we have to fix our hair. then, we have to get dressed. we spend hours infront of our mirror for you. making sure we look good. then we have to apply make up. while doing all this, there’s so much to consider.. especially gossipers and guys. if something’s too short, they’ll call us a whore. something’s too long, they’ll call us ugly. we go through buckets full of ice cream because we’ve had way too many broken hearts. we cry because bitches wanna hate and boyfriends wanna bitch. we can’t complain because we don’t wanna be annoying. we trust people, then they end up stabbing us in the back. we learn stuff the hard way. every guy out there making a period joke, like are you for real? no. just because you’re being a little bitch and pissing me off doesn’t mean i’m on my period. get over it. we get hurt multiple times, and keep running back to the same people. we love hard, and hurt hard. we care too much. we’re never understood. we go through so much trouble when you don’t even notice. we listen to songs till five in the morning and fall asleep to it just because it reminds us of you. we try so hard to impress you, while dealing with all that’s said about us. after everything, we sit our asses down on tumblr and reblog everything that reminds us of you. we spill our guts out to our bestfriends who’ve probably had enough of you. we go on facebook and we check your profile a million times, and go through all your pictures. even if we have seen them all before. we hear what people say about us, and sometimes we break inside. but no matter what, even after everything, we have to come out strong. we have to put a big smile on our faces and pretend like everything’s ok. we have to act nice towards the haters, even knowing everything that they said about us. we love even though we know we shouldn’t. and we wait for something that’ll never happen. but no matter what, we manage to act like everything’s fine, even though everything’s falling apart. that’s a day in a girl’s life. imagine dealing with all that everyday. we’re so much more than what you think. so much more than what we seem.
That’s what hurts you the most right?
When you’re hurting, he just pushes your feelings aside like they’re nothing to him, he neglects you and doesn’t even pay attention to how you feel because he’s too busy paying attention to himself, he’s never there for you when you need him even though you’re the one that’s always there for him when he’s feeling down because deep down you know that you still care about him. You wish that he would just take the time to listen to you, you wish that he could just understand you because it would show that he still cares, but sadly he does none of that right? You want him to be there for you like you’re there for him, but in reality he’s not. At times you feel alone because it feels like the one person that’s suppose to care about you doesn’t.
What does a “Relationship” mean to me?
It means being committed, by being committed I mean not giving up when the relationship doesn’t go as you planned it to be because you understand that relationships aren’t perfect and you realize that you’re boyfriend or girlfriend is going to mess up here and there, but even through the mistakes you still can love that person with all your heart because to you they mean more then any argument or difference. In a relationship you have to be faithful, no lies and no cheating because the person you’re with is someone that is special to you, that person is the only one that has your heart, that person is the one that makes you happy, they see your flaws and know your mistakes but still love you for who you are. A relationship isn’t about the “Sex” or the “Materialistic Things” , It’s about finding someone who you can be yourself with, it’s finding someone who accepts you for who you are even through your imperfections and mistakes, It’s being with someone who can make you smile on your worst of days with the most simplest of gestures. Most of all it’s not the looks that matter, It’s the personality because that determines who you are, It’s what stays with you as life goes on while your looks may fade.
She likes you, but she's afraid..
Do you know why? It’s not that she doesn’t trust you, it’s because she met guys who have played with her heart and it hurt her, she doesn’t want to go through that pain again, she doesn’t want to open up to someone only to have her time wasted and her feelings played with.
She wants you to prove to her that you genuinely care about her, she wants to know that you will be there for her and that you will take the time to listen and understand her to see who she is as an individual, you know? She’s willing to give her all when she’s in a relationship, so are you willing to do the same for her now?
What will your choice be?
The opinions of other’s shouldn’t reflect how you feel in your relationship with your significant other, Period.
A relationship consists of two people, not a third or fourth person so why allow the words of other’s to influence or determine what happens in your relationship? Why let it break what you two have work so hard to build fall and crumble based on the words of someone else right? If you feel like something is wrong or have something on your mind then turn to the source, your boyfriend or girlfriend, you know? Talk things out and try to resolve the issue, take the time to listen to your significant other, try to understand their side of the story instead of believing and siding with an unreliable third party. Most of all, at the end of the day know what’s important, lose the person you love and gave your heart to or lose the argument? What will your choice be?
I just want someone who I can hold.
Holding you close. There’s nothing wrong with holding the ones you love tight. To me I just want to hold someone, someone who won’t ever leave. I want someone who will stick by my side through the end. Even when times may get rough I would love to have that special someone beside me through the fucked up times. I want someone who I can be able to trust, even when there is so much shit that is going on around us. I don’t just want to hold you close even though the worse but also the good. Like whenever we may go somewhere I want to hold you at times, this will put my mind at ease knowing that I have you with me. It eases me to have you clutched around my arms, to feel your presence with mine.
Long Distance Lovers
The only way they can talk to each other is through phone calls and Skype. One of the sweetest things is when they put an effort to talk to each other and how they find time for them to talk before they go to sleep. But at least, no matter how distance separates them, nobody can ever break them because they both know that despite the distance, they’re going to fight for their love and hope that one of these days, they can hold each other’s hands again and hug each other tight as a sign of missing each other so much for a long time.
A Comfortable Relationship
I think we are all just looking for that one person that we can be ourselves around, that one person who will love you and accept who you are, your silly awkward side and your serious side too.
We are all just looking for that “Comfortable Relationship”, you know? You don’t care what you are doing because as long as that one special person is next to you then you are happy, whether it’s going out or just having a lazy day at home watching movies and eating food, you cherish all these moments with them because that special person is the one you enjoy seeing and being around everyday, that person is someone you can turn to with all your problems and they will be there for you through it all.
Every conversation, hug, kiss, or whatever you always look forward to because in your heart you truly love them and you wouldn’t have it any other way, you know? It’s that relationship that through whatever happens you are going to stick by there side and support them. It’s simply that“Comfortable relationship” where you can be yourself and not be afraid of them judging you, after all “Love” is “Acceptance” of one another regardless of “Flaws” or anything else.
Iba't ibang uri ng mga SINGLE.
1. No boyfriend/girlfriend since birth = Eto yung ayaw pang makipag relasyon dahil sguro may iba silang priority. Minsan masunurin lang sa mga magulang na ayaw pa silang payagan na pumasok sa isang relationship. Yung iba naman may required age para sa ganyan. Kunyare, sa 18 pa siya mag bbf/ggf. Parang ganun.
2. Takot na masaktan = Eto yung mga nasaktan ng sobra sobra sa past relationship nila. Kase parang ang point of view nila e, pare parehas lang ang magiging ending ng relationship nila. Naramdaman na kase nila kung gano kasakit ang masaktan, kaya ayaw na nilang sumugal pa ulit.
3. Nagpapahinga/Nagpapagaling ng sugat sa puso = Eto yung mga nagmmove on palang. Mga taong gusto munang makalimot. Para kapag nakipag relasyon na uli sila, kayang kaya uli nilang ibigay yung kaya nila para sa taong nagmamahal sakanila.
4. Sumusunod sa 3-month rule = Mga taong nag aantay muna ng 3 months bago makipag relasyon uli.
5. Nag-eenjoy sa mga manliligaw = Eto yung mga babaeng kinikilatis muna yung mga manliligaw nila. Kumbaga pinpahirapan muna nila bago sagutin.
6. Pag-aaral ang inuuna = Yung mga taong concentrate muna sa pag-aaral nila. Kase para sknila, sagabal lang yung pag-ibig. Gusto muna nilang magtapos bago unahin yung makikipag relasyon.
7. Nag-aantay sa kanilang soulmate/destiny = Yung mga taong nag-aantay sa tamang panahon, oras at pagkakataon. Naghihintay muna sila para makita yung THE RIGHT ONE.
8. Mga mag-M.U = Yung tipong more than friends but less than lovers. Minsan yung ganto, MALABONG USAPAN TALAGA! Kaya ayan, ang ending SINGLE parin.
9. Yung mga nag-eenjoy lang sa fling = Yung tipong kuntento muna sa flings. Sa infatuation. Sa crush. Kase feeling nila mas walang problema kung ganto lang. Libre pa!
10. Wapakels = Yung walang paki elam sa estado ng buhay pag ibig nila. Basta yun na yun!
Do your best during the relationship not after it.
If you really love someone don’t hesitate to show it. There are many ways to show how you really feel for someone. It’s not about the hugs and the kisses. It’s how you understand your imperfections and how you listen when he/she needs you. It’s how you appreciate his/her efforts, little or big. Always show your love as long as you’re together. Because when he/she is gone, you have nothing to do but miss they way your love used to be.
HUGS.
Sometimes, hugs are much better than apologies. All your effort will not be wasted as long as you’re willing to do it. Give your best as much as you say “sorry” a million times. Sometimes, apologies are not enough. Girls want to see that you are worth for second chances. Then, all you gotta do is prove it.
Pay attention to how she feels.
When a girl does something, don’t think she’s doing it for no reason. If she’s hurting or if she’s crying, then don’t just brush it off as if it’s nothing to you because I promise you that there is reason to why she is acting the way she is, maybe she wants you to be there for her or maybe she’s going through some things.
Take the time to listen to her, find out and understand what is making her sad or what is making her mad, you know? Then work to resolve the issue, don’t walk away from her because when you do, it makes her feel like she’s not even worth your time and you may not see it, but it hurts her when you treat her problems like they are nothing to you.
She needs you to be there for her, not anyone else, so do just that and be the one that is there to comfort her. take the time to listen and understand, that’s all she’s really asking for.
Mahal nila tayo.
Alam nyo girls, may sarili ding buhay ang mga lalaki. Hindi porket sinagot na natin sila eh kailangan dapat nandyan na sila kapag sinabi natin kahit napaka imposible.Wag natin sila under-in. Masakit sakanila na isipin na inaalila natin sila.
Hindi natin alam kung gaano sila nahihirapan na isipin ang ireregalo para sa atin sa monthsary na wala naman sa dictionary. Hindi rin natin alam kung gaano sila naghihirap sa paghahanap ng pera para sa pang date sa atin.
Nagagalit pa nga tayo minsan pag sinabi nilang tayo ang sumagot sa pamasahe. At nagagalit pag na-late sila ng five minutes man lang, pero pag tayo naman ang late, tayo pa ang nagagalit kapag nagreklamo sila tungkol don.
Importante tayo sa kanila kaya wag na tayo paimportante pa. 1:10 ang ratio ng lalake sa babae. Kung hindi nila tayo mahal, matagal na nila tayong iniwan dahil sa kakadakdak natin tungkol sa mga walang kwentang bagay. Seryoso, mahal nila tayo pero wala silang pakialam tungkol don.
Ayaw nilang nakikitang malungkot tayo dahil hindi iyon ang dahilan kung bakit nahulog ang puso nila sa atin. Alam kong fragile tayo masyado pero, wag natin silang sigawan sa harap ng maraming tao. Nakakawala ng self-esteem at pagkalalake sakanila yun.
Wag rin tayong magalit AGAD-AGAD kung minsan ay aksidente silang napapatingin sa ibang girls. By chances lang siguro yun. Hindi tulad ng ginagawa natin pag kasama natin mga barkada natin. Hawak na nga natin kamay nila, naghahanap parin tayo ng pogi at makikipagtawanan pa sa mga kaibigan natin pag may nakita tayo.
Lahat naman ginagawa din nila para makausap tayo at makita. Hindi sila nanunumbat. At alam nating lahat na kahit anong gawin nilang mga lalaki na dahilan, tayo paring mga girls ang mananalo dahil hindi nila tayo kayang tiisin at mahal na mahal nila tayo.
I believe in old-fashioned relationships.
I believe that guys should take the initiative move and ask the girl out. I also believe in commitment and gender roles in the relationship; the men providing lead and protection while the women follow. Yeah I know generations have passed and things have changed since then and many would think that this idea is sexist. But in my interpretation, women and men have endless differences and no matter how much of a feminist you are, you must recognize that men and women are built differently. Ironically though, that’s the beauty of love; having two contrasting objects fit together in a warm and appeased harmony. I believe in moving slowly (there’s no need rush) and building a foundation with the one you want to be with. I don’t like how in today’s relationship, people are dating as soon as someone says they like you. What happened to the get-to-know-each-other process? Don’t be with someone just because it seems right at the moment but be with them because you truly believe that it would work out in the long run. I like long relationships and I do not believe in hook-ups. I don’t know how many people would agree with me but this is the way I think.
Back hugs
I think this is the sweetest hugs ever! Back hugs are more passionate than normal hugs. When a person hugs you from behind, it means that there is a strong connection between the two of you. Imagine that when you are doing something, the person you love will surprisingly hug you from the back and with a kiss on the cheeks or forehead. While he is hugging you, he will whisper to you saying, “You’re my only one. I will spend my lifetime with you”
Name: Mitchie
i might not have the biggest boobs nor the biggest butt, i might not have the most bangin’ body either. my smile isn’t perfect and i know my face isn’t the cutest. my hair isn’t always going to look good, and my clothes, they’re not always going to be nice or in the latest fashion.